tiGgRrRrRrRrRsSs . . . .

PeRcepTiOnS
why is it that when you try to do something NiCe for someone you care about, they always choose to see you as doing something mEaN to hurt them?

you try to put their well being first & you are rewarded w/ nOt even being rEmeMbeReD,

Or wOrSe,

being iNstAntLy rEpLacEd w/ aNytHiNg aNd/Or aNyOnE who is tHeRe at the present moment?!

why are so many people so caught up in making sure ThEy aRe being rEmeMbeReD & being treated as if they wErE iMpoRtaNt that they

fOrgEt

hOw to rEmeMbeR someone else & hOw to make someone else fEeL iMpoRtaNt?

granted, not every KiNd iNteNtiOn turns out the way you hoped it would.

certainly there are times when bEiNg kiNd & tyring to tHinK of anOthEr's well-being & feelings can cause pain. . .

but can't we even tRy to give someone credit for aTteMptiNg to 'gRoW Up' & tHinK about sOmeOne eLsE's well being & sOmeOne eLsE's feelings other than their own for even a millisecond?

for example, take tiggers!

while many people want to believe tiggers are just self-centered, self-absorbed, & insensitive individuals, tiggers are rEaLLy very confident, socially considerate, & unselfish.

they may come across to those who consider themselves as 'mOrE mAtuRe' & 'mOrE giViNg' than tiggers, as always trying to be "in your face". . . . . .
but mAybE TiGgeRs are just trying to sHoW they are gEnUineLy iNteResTed in yOu as a rEaL pErsOn!

or maybe to them, this is tHe wAy they sHoW they cArE & are being aTteNaTivE!

why do people have to judge? why do people have to be snotty to one another? & why do people feel they have to tear someone else dOwN in order to bUiLd themselves up?

why can't people be happy every time some does well? why do they feel the oVerWheLmiNg nEeD to coLLecT aLL the gold stars for themselves?

why do they feel tHreAteNed when someone else does well?

when will we realize that sHaRiNg IS better than pOsSesSiNg soLeLy & making OtHerS feel rEmeMbeRed & iMpOrtAnT makes US fEeL rEmeMbeReD & iMpOrtAnT?

seems to me that we can aLL LeArN a thing or two about fRiEndShip & bEiNg a tRuE fRiEnD from tiggers

afterall, who else can you count on to be there when yOu mOsT nEeD a fRiEnD!

who else can you count on to cHeEr yOu up when yOu are fEeLiNg dOwN? (nOt EeyOrE)

& who else can you count on to lift yOu on tHeiR shoulders when you are having trouble getting around & your 'bOuNcE' isn't workin' so hot!?